Sri M said ...

To lead a family life is a good way to test yourself. Only your spouse  knows who you are. Outside we can put up many poses. They see you from close quarters so they know how you behave! It’s a very nice meter to check yourself, to check your ego also as to how it functions. Consider that as training. If you think your spiritual enquiry is very important, it is possible to do it under all circumstances. Those circumstances should be taken as tests.